Human beings panic at their tough times and get super excited at their achievements or fulfillments. If their desires or wishes are not fulfilled then they go to extreme level of anxieties and if they achieve what they want, then their happiness has no boundaries.
If the circumstances are not favorable, we blame it all to God. I tried my best but I couldn’t succeed. Why this is happening to me? Why God is being unfair to me only? We question it to God. We don’t actually see there are people more unhappy than us, suffering more than us, people who don’t have shelter to live in, people who are ill and fighting for their life, people who have only one cloth for their entire life, people who are hungry yet surviving. We believe if something best or something worst happens to us, then it’s all the consequences of our deeds done in our previous life. It’s the way of convincing our heart.
In my opinion, the main thing in life is everything is destined. We must just enjoy the whole process of life. It’s already written in our fate that at this moment of our entire life, we’re going to experience contentment, achievements, grief, anxiety, loss of someone and our death. Therefore, we must just stay stable. We must keep on going with our pure heart. Just give our hundred percent in the work we do. Just hope for the best and prepare for the worst too.
Why does heart never satisfies?
Every day new incidents happen in everyone’s life. We don’t know what next is coming in our life. It might be a miracle of happiness or it might be a disaster of a misery or it might be normal. We are struggling to do better and to be better in life. There are many accidents that take place in every individual’s life. Some lose their life or lose their near ones in aero plane crash, some in bike, bus or car accidents, some does suicide, some dies of heart attack, some become paralyzed. Some experience love, some experience breakups, some experience loss, some experiences proposals, some experiences refusals.
This is the part of the life. Let’s go back to the incident that took place two years ago. The US Bangla aircraft which was crashed two years ago on March 14, 2018. Out of 14, 12 of them who were medical students studying MBBS in Bangladesh. After completion of five years of study, the medical students were returning home for about two months before beginning their internships in Bangladesh for a year. Their life was till to that date. The bereaved family had so much expectations, dreams for their children. But their whole dream was shattered into thousand pieces. Likewise, there are many more endless examples that happen in life which is unexpected to an extreme level. Be it contentment or be it sadness. Anything that happens is meant to happen. The circumstances changes utterly in someone’s life.
Life is unpredictable and uncertain. Let’s not compare our life with anyone else. Everyone has their own side of life. Everyone is experiencing bitter moments in life. We just see the outer look of the people and judge them on the spot immediately. We actually don’t see other people’s pain behind their smile. If s/he is all set, well dressed up, has great personality, speaks with all the people around them, we believe that they are the happiest person in this entire universe. But we never understand that they might have also some stories to share to heal their pain. Everyone has their own way to hide their pain.
We even curse God for bringing us in to this world if something worst happens to us. But, we don’t see there are people praying each second for their life so they can live. There are so many people in the corner screaming with their mouth closed urging God to set them free from the hell.
And after we come to know the bitter stories of them, then we realize our life is much better than theirs. Therefore, life is a book already written. We know nothing of the moments which is coming in our path. Let’s live in the present moment. Never force anything. Just give it your best shot and let it be. If it’s meant to be, it will be.
